Join cousins Becky and Rachelle as they take you on a nostalgic journey in the “Boathouse Girls.” Growing up like sisters in the upper Midwest during the vibrant 80s, these two share their unique perspectives on the joys and challenges of girlhood in a generation defined by pop culture and shifting social norms.
In each episode, Becky and Rachelle dive into a variety of topics from the struggle to find their identities amidst the chaos of big hair and cassette tapes to the shared bonds of family dynamics and life-altering experiences. They reminisce about the iconic and pivotal moments that defined their younger years, while also reflecting on how those experiences influence their lives today as women in their 50s.
With a blend of humor, heartfelt stories, and candid discussions, the cousins explore everything from the impact of games on the playground to the art of navigating relationships and finding one’s voice. Whether they’re sharing tales of their childhood escapades, dissecting the cultural phenomena of their time, or offering insights on modern challenges faced by women today, Becky and Rachelle invite listeners to connect with their own memories and experiences.
Join them for a delightful mix of nostalgia, laughter, and meaningful conversations that celebrate the spirit of Generation X and the unique bond of friends and family—because sometimes, the best therapy is just a chat with your cousin!

In this warm, funny, and deeply nostalgic episode, Becky and Rachelle settle in for another round of cousin time – one from a South Dakota blizzard, the other from sunny South Texas. The conversation kicks off with a very Gen‑X confession: Diet Coke addiction. As Becky jokes, “If there was ever a generation that got hooked on something, it was our generation… Diet Coke.” From caffeine‑free coping to 80s “suicide drinks,” the cousins revel in the quirks of their era.
Becky’s BoatHouse Moment sparks a cascade of lake‑life memories: childhood summers packed with cousins, teenage trips with friends, and the unforgettable day a game warden – “the 1990 version of Barney Fife” – ticketed her for paddle‑boating without life jackets in four feet of water. They recall Zorba’s pizza runs, missed flirtation opportunities, and the awkwardness of being Gen‑X girls who “didn’t know how to flirt then… and maybe still don’t.”
The episode shifts into a heartfelt exploration of discipline, grounding, and the emotional vocabulary of their parents’ generation. Rachelle shares the only time she was ever grounded – wrongly, she insists – while Becky admits she was grounded “more times than stars in the sky.” They reflect on how their boomer parents expressed fear, love, and control, often without the words to say so.
From there, the cousins dive into what Gen‑Xers actually fear (spoiler: not much), how growing up “the forgotten generation” shaped their grit, and why they’re fiercely protective of their own kids. They close with humor, honesty, and the familiar comfort of shared history – Becky enjoying her blizzard, Rachelle her spring sunshine, both grateful for another episode together.

